没有开始的结束 2009年9月12日记

2009年9月11日 纽约市的天空阴沉沉的，下着雨~~有点冷！确实有点冷！由内而外的冷，又是心冷了~~就更冷了！

和小朋友认识了也有一个多月了，从网上相识也是那么的偶然，说到这也得谢谢版上的一个朋友，要不是他问起那个网站，偶真是好久没上去过了，又想到那次地铁站的偶遇，一切都是那么巧合！咋就那么巧呢？！！

他所谓的五个阶段，好像确实很教条了！真走到best friend的阶段确实和班上朋友说的是的，无法再进行下去了！

他比我大两个月，可是偶还是喜欢叫他小朋友！用他自己的原话的意思就是，虽然他比我大两个月，可是他自己也觉得叫我哥哥比叫我弟弟舒服！看来偶还是挺有亲和力的！似乎从friend都上升到了兄弟之情了！

下午和他约了4：30在时代广场去看电影。这次见到他，不像以往，我没有给他一个拥抱，他有些诧异！其实我知道，他已经想要说的是什么了！他说想看电影，偶就陪他一起看了一场，看的是 9！没啥感觉，一般般~~可能也是偶心思不再电影上！
看完电影，偶让他把要说的话都说清楚了，偶今天心情是不好，不以物喜，不以己悲，虽然偶是“和尚”， 可是偶还做不到那么的彻底。 那也得让他把话说出来才可以！然后小姐姐yve到时代广场来找我，偶们三个又一起坐7号线地铁去了flushing吃晚饭，我也顺便给我同学还书！
到了flushing，小朋友先回家去拿之前买给我的礼物顺便换件衣服，臭小子还挺臭美，出来时候也喷了香水。偶就给yve讲起那天给小汁过完生日，我和小朋友在flushing地铁站偶遇的故事，此时此地此景，看得我这个难受！绿豆掉出来了，滴答滴答的~~：（
吃晚饭，又有几个朋友过来一起在sago喝茶。东聊西扯的都来安慰我！大家对我真好！搭小酸的车回到了Manhattan，他把我drop off在地铁站我就自己坐车回家了！到家了，小朋友和其他几个朋友都发来msn信息，短信问候一下!冰冷的雨夜顿时温暖了！
偶也被从小黑屋放出来了~~又可以再版上发帖子了！所以就写下这篇纪念一下！
明天还要去参加一个workshop，希望会好玩一点！：）

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